Have you ever been in a heated argument and felt like you just couldn’t communicate anymore? I sure have. It’s one of those feelings that can really make or break a relationship. In my journey through personal experiences, I’ve discovered some pivotal reasons why we tend to shut down during conflicts and how we can …
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Start with Empathy Understand Their Feelings When chatting with someone, one of the most impactful things you can do is acknowledge what they’re feeling. I’ve found that saying something like “That sounds really tough” or “I can only imagine what you’re going through” creates a bridge of understanding. It shows you care and aren’t just …
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We’ve all been there—you’re in a conversation and suddenly, your mind goes blank. It’s awkward, right? You might be fumbling for words, feeling the stress of the moment as you try to come up with something to say. So, I thought I’d share my personal take on this tricky situation and how to navigate it …
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Reflect on the Conflict Understand Your Emotions After a major conflict, the first thing I like to do is take a step back and truly reflect on my emotions. It’s really easy to get lost in the heat of the moment and let anger or frustration cloud my judgment. So, I usually find a quiet …
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Understanding Communication Styles Developed in Childhood Foundation of Communication When I think about how I communicate today, I can’t help but notice the roots that stretch all the way back to my childhood. Each family has a unique communication style that shapes its members. Whether it’s open dialogue or avoidance, these early lessons stick with …
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Understanding the Emotion Behind the Argument Recognizing Your Feelings When I’m wrapped up in an argument, my emotions can run wild. I’ve found that recognizing these feelings is the first step to mastering the art of pausing. You might feel anger, frustration, or even fear. Whatever it is, acknowledging these emotions helps me take control …
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1. Establishing Clear Communication Understanding Each Other’s Needs To foster a culture of openness, the first thing I learned is the importance of understanding each other’s needs. It’s crucial to have ongoing conversations about what we both want and need from the relationship. I can’t stress enough how vital this step is—it’s like a roadmap …
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The Importance of Non-Verbal Communication Understanding the Role of Tone In my experience, tone can make or break a conversation. It’s like the secret sauce that can either enhance or completely ruin your message. When I first started noticing how people reacted to my tone, it was eye-opening. Sometimes, I’d say something perfectly fine, but …
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1. Know Your Truth Understanding What You Need to Express Speaking your truth starts with understanding what that truth is. I’ve found that taking a bit of quiet time helps me sort through my feelings. I often ask myself questions like, “What is bothering me”, or “What do I need to communicate?” It’s essential to …
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Recognizing Frustration as a Trigger Understanding the Signs Let me tell you, frustration can creep up on you like a thief in the night. One minute you’re having a decent conversation, and the next you’re feeling that simmering heat in your chest. I learned to pay attention to the little things—like my tone, the way …
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